How Do I Know if She Likes Me?

Many people have the experience in love of wondering if the other person really likes them for who they are or for what they have and/or represent.

Brandon Asks Nancy for Relationship Advice:

“I need help on what to ask my girlfriend about our relationship because I am not sure if she really likes me a whole lot. I think she might just like me because I am a state medalist in wrestling but I have no idea. So I am just wanting to ask a expert. What can I ask her to be sure that she is really into me and not into some other guys?”

Nancy’s Relationship Advice:

Dear Brandon,

I believe the best approach is to ask your girlfriend straightforward questions about your relationship. I encourage you to start by telling her how you feel about her and what she means to you to lay the foundation for this conversation. By being vulnerable first, you then allow her to express her feelings towards you. I would then ask about her feelings towards you and if she desires an exclusive relationship with you. If her actions recently have led you to believe that she is dating you because of your accomplishments or appears to be attracted to other guys, then this is the time to address those concerns and get everything out in the open.

One of the mistakes many people make in dating is pretending that everything is great while their intuition is telling them otherwise. I encourage you to not rationalize away your feelings, as they are very valid. Speak from your heart and those words will definitely guide you in the right direction. Although it can be painful to find out that the person you want to have a relationship is not as serious about it as you, it is much better end something that is not meant to be rather than staying in a relationship that does not share the same goals or has your best interests at heart.

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