Discovering Thought Origins

You’ve heard that what we focus on, our mind will magnify and in time as we nurture that thought, it will manifest. Even though your beliefs can become ingrained and a part of who you are today, it is paramount that you take any negative thoughts and beliefs and reverse them. In the beginning, this can be a daily challenge, but with practice and perseverance, you can change the way you view relationships, change your beliefs about yourself and the types of individuals you attract.

Now that you have your list of what you have been saying and speaking over your love life, you need to know what to do with this information.

The second step is to discover where these thoughts originated. Many times when I work with people, they believe that a past relationship that ended badly was the origin of their fears towards loving again. I have found that when you take a closer look at those feelings, the adult relationship was not the real origin. The beginning was much further back, generally in the formative years of life.

My encouragement is to take each statement and trace it back as far as you can remember and the incident and people that were involved at that time. Many times as an adult you can rationalize away certain experiences and events because you do have a different perspective than you did as a child. However, when those old feelings are no dealt with and many times are pushed down inside of you, they end up arising in romantic relationships in particular. If you were really okay with what happened as a child, you would not experience that particular feeling today in your relationships.

It is my belief that once you can see that you are not that wounded child anymore, you can make a decision to replace that negative thought with a positive one. It sounds like a fairly simple fix for something as complex as emotions and feelings, but I assure you once you get into the habit of saying the right words, you will soon start believing those words in your mind and ultimately in your heart.

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Discovering Thought Origins

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